Friday, April 15, 2011 - 10:46 AM
By Rebecca Frankel
Best Defense chief
canine correspondent
Before he went to war, Sgt. James Ide told his wife, Mandy, how he
wanted the news of his death delivered to friends and family in the event that
he was killed while on tour in Afghanistan. And on Aug. 29 she posted the
following note on her facebook page:
I do not know what to say, but this is the way Jimmy asked me to tell his friends. Jimmy passed away this morning. He died in combat in [Afghanistan]. Jimmy loved his job and if he could choose a way to go this would be it."
Sgt. Ide's unit had been
"attacked with small arms fire near Hyderabad, Helmand Province, Afghanistan,"
and he succumbed to the wounds he received during the onslaught. Ide, who had
also served a tour in Korea and two others in Iraq, is described by
family and friends a lover of animals who "enjoyed writing poetry and riding
motorcycles and was endlessly curious about the world." The 32-year-old handler
is survived by
his wife, their two small children, and Ddaphne the bomb-sniffing dog who was
on patrol with him the day he died.
Ddaphne, a five-year-old Belgian Malinois who loves to fetch, was
with Ide for four years and was "always at his side." Though the dog made it
through the late August attack that killed her trainer, but she suffered severe
PTSD as a result of the ordeal and the military decided she had to retire from
service.
When Mandy Ide heard that Ddaphne "had not been hurt in the attack
that killed her husband, she had no doubt that she wanted Ddaphne with her and
the children. ... 'It's the last connection to him.'"
And last week Ddaphne arrived in Festus, Missouri, to join her rightful home with the Ides. But it was months about before Ddpahne was family-ready. First, she had to recover from the stress of the attack and to shed the rigorous life as an IED detection dog. As Army Staff Sgt. Skipper Green, a kennel master and buddy of Sgt. Ide's, who trained Ddaphne these last few months, said: "It was letting her realize she didn't have to be on guard, letting her relax."
Reportedly, Ddaphne is taking to her new lifestyle with tremendous ease -- she's been playing fetch with the Ide's two-year-old son, Jas, who was named after his father. It was a good fit from the start. Mandy Ide went to visit Ddaphne with Jas the night the dog arrived in the country and posted this message on her Facebook page:
Me and Jas got to hang out with Ddaphne last night and it went AMAZING. She did so well with us. I can't wait to have her home with me."
Every time BD runs a story about the fallen I feel so moved. My 27 years old cousin just got married last summer in a wonderful and sunny day in Madrid, Spain. We all were so happy, we had such a good time together, family, friends, food, drinks and music. I just can't think of her being a widow now. War is so far away from Spain, the military is so apart from the rest of us. At this point I just want to pray for our people in uniform in Lebanon, Afghanistan, Libya.
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